I had set a goal that the next man I would let in my life would have to have number one , a job, #2 a ride, #3 believe in GOD, #4 be caring and loving to me. #four his own house. I found a guy that has none of this. What was I thinking I couldn't tell you, must of been nothing. So I decided today to end it. May I stick to this rules next time, if it's a next time. Praying for wisdom.